Balloon Animals, BJs, Cigarettes, and Teenage Girls
Oct 22, 2012
Ira writes: This post exists for two reasons: 1) To let you know that I did a video for the website Rookie that might amuse you. In it, I teach teenaged girls how to make balloon animals while — and here’s where it gets a little odd, I admit — I answer their questions about crushes and BJs and other pressing issues in their lives. 2) I wanted to make sure our teenaged listeners and parents of teenaged girls know about Rookie. Because Rookie is awesome. Okay, first the video. Rookie does a series called "Ask a Grown Man" where guys like Paul Rudd, Jon Hamm and Judd Apatow answer teenagers’ questions about boys in their lives and boys in general. BJ Novak did the best one ever, only rivaled by Paula Pell. her first editor’s letter: "Rookie is not your guide to Being a Teen. It is not a pamphlet on How to Be a Young Woman. (If it were, it would be published by American Girl and your aunt would’ve given it to you in the fifth grade.) It is, quite simply, a bunch of writing and art we like and believe in." The result is a hilarious, sometimes moving, beautifully art-directed mix of personal stories, essays about TV shows and movies, photo shoots, original songs, and candy reviews. It simultaneously takes itself very seriously — and has the courage of its convictions — and doesn’t take itself seriously at all. Which is of course the best combination a person could hope for. Some representative posts: Advice on how to get through high school from Joss Whedon, Zooey Deschanel, Dan Savage, Fred Armisen, Jack Black and other famouses. An appreciation of Freaks and Geeks from someone way too young to have seen it when it first was broadcast. An appreciation of Joan Didion. Tavi writing about getting to the age when girls start to get cat calls. Months later all the Rookie writers had this conversation about being harassed on the street. A teenaged photographer’s photo essay on heaven and her 3-D photo essay in Japan. I love the photography on Rookie. Candy reviews, more candy reviews, and a candy review video by the cast of Parks and Rec. DIY how to make a flower crown, DIY how to do a two-minute beehive, DIY how to make a bitchface. Tavi teaches Jimmy Fallon to do a bitchface. Lena Dunham, Sarah Silverman and other celeb women write about losing their virginity. A great interview with Carrie Brownstein and one with cartoonist Daniel Clowes. Maggie’s story of losing a teen friendship over Risk. Jenny’s story on parents who don’t let you out of the house. Sady’s story about being diagnosed with a mental illness. Ruby's diary (real teenage diaries are a weekly feature on Rookie) the week after her mom died, writing about the funeral. Her heartbreaking closing lines: "It was a beautiful day, but she would have been freezing. She was always cold." And finally, a story by Miranda July on her first feminist action which justifies the whole mission of the website all on its own. There’s also a book of greatest hits from the first year of Rookie. Full disclosure: my wife helps Tavi run the site. Yes, her boss is a high school junior. Tavi started writing a fashion blog called Style Rookie when she was 11. She’s such a funny and honest and interesting writer that soon she was noticed not as a kid novelty act but in The Guardian's list (and others' lists) of best fashion bloggers. Big designers became fans and started flying her as their guest of honor to shows in Paris and Japan. At the New York runway shows she sits next to Anna Wintour, of Vogue. Early on, when the New York Times got in touch wanting to write about Style Rookie, Tavi had to reveal to her parents that she’d been quietly writing a blog. The New Yorker also wrote a profile. Here’s her 12-year-old style. Here’s an early video from Style Rookie days where she performs a rap she wrote about the Comme des Garcons collaboration with H&M (her parents let her go to school late that day so she could make it to the store first thing in the morning). Here she discovers feminism, years ago. Here she announces she's not that into fashion anymore (causing an outcry from the Fashion Blog Community). This photo was taken for an article someone wrote about the two of us. Yes, Tavi and I know smoking is bad. No, neither of us smokes. Yes, we just thought it would make an interesting picture. Yes, we’re hoping children won’t start smoking because we were photographed with cigarettes. If you’re a child looking at this picture now: please don’t smoke. Image by Kyoko Hamada.