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August 17, 2012

Our Friend David

Favorite stories by our longtime contributor and friend David Rakoff.

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David Rakoff pictured in his 1982 high school yearbook (Forest Hill Collegiate Institute in Toronto)

Note: The internet version of this episode contains un-beeped curse words. BEEPED VERSION.

Prologue

Prologue

David Rakoff died on August 9, 2012. He’d appeared on This American Life 25 times, first in 1996, during the third month of the show; his last appearance was just a few weeks before he died. He was on the program so often that in putting together this week’s show, we realized we could tell a lot of his life story, simply through things he said on the show. So this week we do just that, with excerpts from some of his favorite stories over the years.

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David Rakoff
Act One

Who’s Canadian?

David on how he tried to pass as a local once he moved from Toronto to New York. He claims that there must be a chip in his head — or something like it — that automatically tells him when someone or something famous is Canadian. From episode #65: Who’s Canadian?

Act Two

The Meaning Of A Bird

David writes about how his life changed after a single evening spent with 5000 chickens. From episode #116: Poultry Slam 1998.

Act Three

Mister Prediction

Working at an advertising agency in Japan in the early ‘80s, David scoffed at their computer “network.” From episode #241: 20 Acts in 60 Minutes.

Act Four

I Used To Bank Here But That Was Long, Long Ago

David’s first battle with cancer came at age 22. Years later, he wrote about the experience. From episode #156: What Remains.

We also hear an excerpt from one of Terry Gross’ interviews with David on Fresh Air.

Act Five

Sheetcakes In The Conference Room, Whiskey After Dark

Recalling the years when he worked low-level publishing jobs, David describes the life of a writer who doesn’t actually write. From epiosde #208: Office Politcs.

Act Six

Rent

A never-before-aired story about the Broadway musical Rent.

Act Seven

More Animals Eating Other Animals

W hear the first time David appeared on our show,  in a courtroom radio drama in which played a cat who was also the prosecuting attorney. From epsiode #12: Animals. 

Then a story David co-wrote and performed with Jonathan Goldstein, originally for the CBC’s Wiretap, about a man who believes he’s turning into a cockroach and reaches out to a famous doctor for advice. Except the doctor will only respond in rhyme. David plays the doctor. From epsiode #470: Show Me The Way.

Act Eight

Speak Now Or Forever Hold Your Peace

David demonstrates — in rhyme — how to make a wedding toast for people you never wanted to see married in the first place. From epsiode #389: Frenemies.

The show also includes never-before-heard excerpts from David’s book, Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish: A Novel. David recorded these less than two weeks before he died. David’s other books are Don’t Get Too Comfortable, Fraud, and Half Empty.

David in our cinema event from May.

Song:

“What'll I Do? ” by Nat King Cole

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