Ira plays tapes of his own father, Barry, who was a radio deejay in the mid-1950s. Barry gave up spinning records when he decided that he couldn't make a decent living at it, and for over a decade he was against his son going into radio, not wanting him to waste time the way he did.

When Susan Bergman wrote a book about her family's experience, other gay men tried to explain her father's actions to her.

A talk with a father who's deceiving his own children.