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May 31, 2019

Here’s Looking at You, Kid

Adults telling kids who they are, and kids wondering — are they right?

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Keith Negley

Note: The internet version of this episode contains un-beeped curse words. BEEPED VERSION.

Prologue

Prologue

Host Ira talks with comedian Gary Gulman about his transformation from high school nobody to football star. (8 minutes)

By

Ira Glass
Act One

Jersey? Sure.

Gary puts on a tough guy costume, but will it turn him into a tough guy? Ira continues Gary Gulman’s story. (17 minutes)

By

Ira Glass
Act Two

Grownups Know Things

Eleanor Gordon-Smith tells the story of a woman who wants to know why she was taken away from her mom as a kid. A version of this story is in Eleanor’s book Stop Being Reasonable: How We Really Change Our Minds. (30 minutes)

By

Eleanor Gordon-Smith

Song:

“A Little Bit of Love” by Brenda Russell

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