Full episode 610: Grand Gesture Act Three It’s Gesture Imagination Share a clip ByElna Baker Among friends, Elna Baker is famous for her romantic advice: go big! She talks to Ira about successes and failures. (15 1/2 minutes) Song:“Prove My Love” by Violent Femmes More by Elna BakerView all 638: Rom-Com Feb. 9, 2018 Act 2: The Obstacle Elna Baker interviews comedian Michelle Buteau about one of her first big romantic challenges. 602: The Sun Comes Up Nov. 11, 2016 Act 9: Salt Lake City (Podcast only)Elna Baker talks to a Republican woman who voted for Hillary Clinton this year, and has suffered consequences in the Mormon community she lives in. 589: Tell Me I’m Fat June 17, 2016 Act 2: It’s a Small World After All Elna Baker lost a lot of weight, 110 pounds. When she was fat, she wasn’t able to get a job or a boyfriend and sometimes thought, “I wonder if it’s my weight.” She figured no, that’s a bad attitude, paranoia.