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661: But That's What Happened
Act One

The Old Man on My Shoulder

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From the ages of 12 to 27, our producer Elna Baker was supposed to confess to male clergy anytime she did anything sexual. It was so routine for her that she barely thought to talk about it. Until recently, when she started calling other women who did the same thing. (35 minutes)

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